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How to Use Lingerie and Rose Petals to Create Romance

2008-01-26T04:36:00.000-08:00

Planning a romantic evening does not have to be a stressful event. It can be fun and adventurous with sexy lingerie, candles, dinner and more. You can use your creativity paired with your eroticism and you will have an evening to remember. Read on and enjoy !

Steps

Make a List - Make a list of the things that your and your partner enjoy. Is it a simple evening with a vintage bottle of wine? Is it a sexy, erotic evening with rose petals and sexy lingerie? Is it a visit down memory lane? A favorite restaurant maybe? Or special vacation? Write down all of the things that you feel will entice the both of you.

Select the Perfect Location - Any location will work as long as it creates the mood for the both of you. It could be dinner at home or possibly a romantic rooftop dinner with wine. There have been so many romantic rooftop scenes in the movies, why not try that out in real life ? You pack a basket and travel to familiar countryside and have a picnic. How about taking a sailing trip or a boat cruise?

Dinner - The plan does not necessarily have to include food. If you do include food in the evening then either cook a favorite meal that you both enjoy or possibly have it catered. Find a favorite restaurant, maybe one that you went to when you first started dating? Remember, be creative. Writing helps so this is an important part of your list!

Surroundings - Create an atmosphere that lends to romance and that feeling when you first met each other, or that first kiss. Use candles and soft lighting to create the mood. There are many different aromas, heights and sizes of candles. Another good choice is to burn some incense that is fragrant and is no heavily scented. Light scents are much better than heavy ones. The scent should be noticed but not be overwhelming as to be distracting.

Where to Go - You may want add a trip to a live show or go the opera after your dinner plans. Select something that create a powerful romantic feeling. Or you could add a night of dancing or a carriage ride in the park.

Do everything that you can to personalize your evening whether it be a special place or possibly a special song. Include love songs, poems and romantic movies.

Tips

End you evening with a grand gesture of a gift of sexy, erotic lingerie, or some jewelry and don't forget the rose petals! The final climax of the evening should be explosive! ENJOY!!

How to Be Kissable

2008-01-23T01:48:00.000-08:00

A person's kissability can be negatively affected by many factors, including bad breath and chapped lips. However, there are plenty of things you can do to minimize these problems and make yourself more kissable.

Steps

Have fresh breath. Begin by brushing and flossing your teeth twice daily.
During the day, especially after meals, use breath mints or breath strips. Breath strips work better, especially if you've just ended a garlicky dinner or whatnot. Be careful about gum because you will have to get rid of it before kissing.
Make sure that your lips are well moisturized. You should also apply lip balm frequently (carry one in your pocket or purse). This will help keep your lips soft.
Don't forget to look after your skin. Use products with shea butter, it's better than most other skincare ingredients and it doesn't leave a greasy feel after use (who would want to kiss you if your skin shines like sweat?).
Make plenty of eye contact. This provides the intimate connection that is an invitation to kissing.
Being comfortable makes you appear more relaxed and therefore more kissable. Make sure you are wearing comfortable clothes.

Tips

Guys: When you notice a girl leaning towards you & looking you dead in the eye she wants to kiss. If the environment is not conducive to a kiss, use the next opportunity.
A surprise kiss is often quite memorable but if you dont know the person likes you as more then a friend it can be a disaster
When you kiss someone (especially if it is just a casual kiss) DO NOT pucker your lips (in other words, don't "smooch")! It also helps not to lick your lips; no one likes a messy, wet kiss.
If you smoke, quit! In addition to being bad for your health, smoking yellows your teeth and causes severe bad breath, which will keep others from even thinking about kissing you!
Guys: Most girls want to kiss you. So act interested and they will likely catch on.
Girls: Kissing is half of what most guys think about, so don't worry about the guy wanting to kiss. Chances are, they do.
If you're a girl, wear a light shade of lipstick or flavored lip gloss so it shows the guy you are up for a kiss.
Girls : Almost every guy wants to kiss a girl, sometimes even in the earlier stages in a relationship. If you want to kiss, most likely the guy you're with wants to kiss. Go for it!
Make your kiss last long,if you want to remember it keep your position and keep following up with kisses. You don't want your kiss to be over in 1 second.

Warnings

If you have severe bad breath that is not helped by brushing, flossing, etc., consult your dentist or doctor. Listerine might help so an extra 30 seconds will not hurt!

Things You'll Need

Yourself, with lips
A person who is open to kissing activities
Breath mints (optional)
Lip mask (optional but works well, especially for easily chapped lips!)

Lip balm (optional)

How to Say I Love You in Different Languages

2008-01-08T20:55:00.000-08:00

Afrikaans - Ek is lief vir jou
Albanian - te dua
Arabic - Ana Ahebak / Ana Bahibak
Armenian - yes kez shat em siroom
Assyr- Az tha hijthmekem
Alentejano(Portugal) - Gosto De Ti, Porra!
Bahasa Malayu - (Malaysia) Saya cinta mu
Basque - Maite Zaitut
Bengali - Ami Tomake Bahlobashi
Bavarian - I mog di
Bisaya - Nahigugma ko nimo
Bosnian - Ja te volim (formally) or volim-te
Bulgarian - Obicham te
Burmese- chit pa de
Cantonese - Ngo Oi Nei
Chinese - gnoy oy naGoi Oi Lei (Hongkong)Wa Ai Li (Taiwan)
Cambodian - Bon sro lanh oon
Catalan - T'estim (mallorcan)
Croatian - LJUBim te
Czech - miluji te
Danish- Jeg elsker dig
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
English - I love you
Esperanto - Mi amas vim
Estonian - Ma armastan sind / Mina armastan sind (formal)
Farsi - Tora dust midaram
Filipino - Mahal ka ta
Finnish - Minä rakastan sinua
French - Je t'aime
Gaelic - Tá mé i ngrá leat
German - Ich liebe Dich
Greek - S'agapw
Greenlandic - Asavakit
Gujrati - Hoon tane pyar karoochhoon
Hawaiian - Aloha wau ia 'oe
Hebrew - Ani ohevet ota
Hindi - Main tumsey pyaar karta hoon / Maine Pyar Kiya
Hmong - Kuv Hlub Koj
Hungarian - Szeretlek
Hokkien - Wa ai lu
Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Icelandic - Eg elska thig
Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
Italian - ti amo
Indian - Mai tumase pyar karata hun (male to female) Mai tumase pyar karati hun (female to male)
Irish - taim i' ngra leat
Japanese - Aishiteru
Javanese - Kulo tresno marang panjenengan (formal)aku terno kowe (informal)
Kapangpangan - Kaluguran daka.
Korean - SA LANG HAE / Na No Sa Lan Hei
Kurdish - Khoshtm Auyt
Laos - Chanrackkun
Latin - Ego te amo
Latvian - Es mîlu Tevi
Lithuanian - As Myliu Tave
Lebanese - Bahibak
Lingala - Nalingi yo
Lojban - mi do prami
Luo - Aheri
Macedonian - Te sakam
Mandarin - Wo Ai Ni
Malteese - Inhobbok hafna
Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Saya cinta mu
Norwegian - Jeg elsker deg
Persian - Tora Doost Darem
Pig Latin - I-yea Ove-lea Ou-yea
Polish - Kocham Cie
Portuguese - Eu te amo (Brazilian)Eu amo-te (continental)
Punjabi - me tumse pyar ker ta hu'
Romanian - Te iubesc
Russian - Ya tebya liubliu
Serbo-Croatian - Volim te
Slovenian - ljubim te
Swedish - Jag älskar dig
Swiss German - Ch-ha di gärn
Spanish - Te quiero / te amo / yo amor tu
Swahili - Naku penda
Tagalog - Mahal Kita / Iniibig kita
Tamil - Naan Unnai Khadalikkeren
Telugu - Nenu Ninnu Premisthunnanu
Thai - Khao Raak Thoe / chun raak ter
Turkish - seni seviyorum
Ukranian - Yalleh blutebeh / ya tebe kohayu
Urdu - Mea tum se pyaar karta hu ( when a guy says it)Mea tum se pyar karti hu (when a gal says it)
Vietnamese - Toi yeu em
Vulcan - Wani ra yana ro aisha
Yugoslavian - Ya te volim
Zazi - Ezhele hezdege
Zulu - Mena Tanda Wen

Romance Ideas (=

2008-01-07T23:47:00.000-08:00

Take photos whenever both of you go out. Then use the photos to paste all around the house to remind you of the happy memories.
Send a dozen roses: 11 red roses and 1 white one. The note: "In every bunch there's one who stands out - and you are that one."
Float a love note in a bottle in the bathtub.
Write him/her a check for one million kisses
Get tulips and attach this note: "I've got two-lips waiting for you!"
Something for the anniversary.... a lottery ticket and a note: "I hit the jackpot when I married you."
Bring flowers home for no reason (well, the reason is love)
Bring home one flower a day for one solid month.
Collect romantic and inspirational quotes. Write them in a journal and give it to your partner as a gift.
Trace "I love you" on a stick of butter or margarine.
Have pillows embroidered with your names, and get monogrammed pillow covers.
You can also get some heart-shaped pillows.
Put a new piece of jewelry in her jewelry box and wait for her to notice it.
Use a thesaurus to help you describe your lover: beautiful, angelic, divine, sublime, alluring, bewitching, stunning, gorgeous, exquisite, marvelous, magnificent, charming, enticing, fabulous...
Leave a trail of your clothes from the front door to the bedroom.
Scatter rose petals all over the bed.
Cover the room with helium balloons.
Write notes on Post-it notes and stick them around the house.
Call her at work and ask: "Is this the office of the most beautiful woman in the world?"
Hide a love note in his pants pocket.
Other places to hide a small note:

* under the pillow

* under a dinner plate

* in the refrigerator

* in her jewelry box

* in his shaving kit

* between the pages he/she is reading

* in the take-out box

* in the medicine cabinet

Buy a bunch of fish at a pet store. It doesn't matter what kind. Leave it for your lover with a note saying " Out of all the fish in the sea, you are the one for me".
Pull the bag out of your lovers breakfast cereal box and slit a small hole in it. Insert a love note. Tape up the bag and return it to the box. What a way to start the day!
Build your lover a web page telling them why you love them so much. Mention special moments and add some images and cool links to topics that interest them. Surf the web with them one day and just "stumble upon it". Or have someone send them an anonymous email with the link inviting them to the page.
Fill bathtub with warm water sprinkled with rose petals.
Surprise your lover with a kiss before they can finish a sentence.
Give your love an antique compass and say "You will never lose me". Your love will swear the needle always points to their heart!

Dating Ideas

2008-01-03T22:28:00.000-08:00

Give the gift of time (wristwatch) with this inscription: "I'll always have time for you."
Find a four-leaf clover and present it together with this note: "I got lucky when I found you."
Send him/her a romantic card.
Mail a lock of your hair to your lover.
Ask him to pick a number between 1 and 50, and then reward him with that number of kisses.
Attach a note on the TV remote: "Turn me on instead!"
Before getting out of bed, face your partner; give him/her a kiss and say: "I'm so thankful I have you in my life."
Place a heart-shaped sticker on your wristwatch to remind you to call.
Hide a pair of earrings in a box of chocolates.
Celebrate the anniversary of when you first met.
Shower together by candlelight.
Warm her bath towel in the dryer for her.
Tell your mate that you - love, adore, admire, cherish desire, want, need, prize, esteem, idolize, revere, and treasure him/her.
Replace the light bulbs in your bedroom with candles.
Buy her an outfit while she's trying it on; let her wear it out of the store.
Slip a little love note into his wallet, in between the dollar bills.
Be waiting for him in the bathtub when he returns from work.
Shower together: it's sexy and you'll save water (=
Give him a lottery ticket. Attach a note: "You are one in a million"
While slow dancing at a party, whisper something sweet to her.
When attending a wedding, whisper: "If I had to do it over, I'd marry you again."
Send a love note via FedEx - because your love just can't wait.
Make a 20-foot HAPPY BIRTHDAY banner for your sweetheart.
Take an old bottle of unused medicine capsules. Empty the medicine and insert tiny teeny love notes. Write him a Prescription for Love.
Leave a romantic message on the answering machine.
Put a note in a romance novel saying, "The story is great but our own love story is the best".
Compose a list: "101 Reasons Why I Love You" Write each reason on a separate square of paper. Wrap them in a fancy gift box.
Sprinkle perfume on to light bulb. When light is turned on the scent of the perfume will fill the room.

Dating Advice for Woman

2008-01-02T19:54:00.000-08:00

Lesson 1 : Appearance

Dress Comfortably

Sure. All Men like to see women that are dressed in nice clothes showing some skin. However, that is the reason why women should not reveal to much skin. Men are selfish. They like to see other women dress in various stages of undress and are genuinely embarrassed when their date is in too little clothes. Moreover, Man do not like to see women keep on tugging at their clothes to make sure they do not reveal too much. Elegant and comfortable wear is always a good gauge. By being comfortable with what you wear, you can also enjoy the night in peace rather then being worried in your dressing.

Dress appropriately

Some of us like to look the best whenever we're outside. Obviously, it is natural that all women are vain by nature and men will be attracted by women who look good. Despite that, the plan can backfire when u try to do sports in long skirts, or attend a function in short skirts. Its always important to dress for the occasion and more important so when you're on a date.

Appropriate make up

Its important to put on some make up before going out on a date. However, you don’t want to look ghastly in front of your date by applying too much make up or applying the wrong make up. Apply adequate make up for the occasion and you’ll look fabulous. If you're one who absolutely hates make up and know nuts about applying make up, just a simple lipstick will do.

Smell good

Men are attracted by their primitive senses. That includes the sense of smell. By smelling good, it helps to give a good impression especially on the first date. By creating an identity using the smell you always used, your date can also remember you more distinctively. In addition, although women do not sweat as much as men and generally do not stink, it is also always hygienic to shower often. After all, your date would not want to kiss someone who haven't shower for days.

Stay in shape

For a long time, women are convinced men are after nothing but sex.Actually its the truth. A man loves a woman as much as he loves her body. A toned lean body is a definite turn on for men compared to one who isn’t. Most women might not be born with great bodies. But by hitting the gym regularly, it helps to improve our bodies and make it more attractive. At the same time, it’s a bonus to be healthier too!

How to Be a Good Girlfriend

2007-12-27T20:17:00.000-08:00

So, you've landed the guy of your dreams. Finding a great boyfriend is hard. Now that you've found him, make sure that you are a great girlfriend, so that you can make him happy and he can enjoy the relationship with you.

Steps

Be honest. While being honest to your mate is very important, to the point of being paramount, it is equally important that you be honest to yourself. And, yes, in a mature relationship, honesty is the best policy.
Have a positive attitude. If everything you say around him is a criticism or an attack, he will not look forward to seeing you. However, you don't always have to agree with him just because he is your boyfriend. Tactfulness is a better strategy in mature relationships. No matter what, have a sense of humor. Have inside jokes together. Be spontaneous. Be happy.
Communicate regularly. Do not talk his ear off. However, make sure that if you have any problems that will affect your mood, he is made aware of the reasons for your problems and mood, so that you do not appear to merely be a fickle and cranky creature.
Make your desires, needs, and opinions known, even when they may conflict with his. Acting like you exist solely to please him will get you no respect and may even make him bored with your company. Showing that you are your own person with your own needs, desires, and approach to life will keep him interested in getting to know and understand you as a person.
Be consistent. What exasperates men most in a relationship is having to go back and forth between moods, and having to tolerate irrationality.
Be patient. Don't automatically think he didn't hear you when you said something, maybe he was preoccupied. Don't jump to conclusions.
Accept the differences you have and learn to love them. Don't try to change each other - love one another for who each of you are.
Take an interest in his interests. You don't have to act like you love football, but at least try to understand why he's such a fan. Take an interest in his disinterests, too. He might be disinterested in what you like, so at least try to understand why he is not interested and respect it.
Buy him simple, unexpected gifts for no special reason once in a while. The thought is always appreciated and it makes the guy feel as if you really do care and love him. Some good gift ideas could be a new music CD he's been dying to get, a book or something else that he'll really like and will be surprised by. Guys like to be surprised with little gifts too.
Let him live his life. If you feel entitled to all of his time and attention, learn how to not be an obsessive girlfriend. Remember that he doesn't need you for everything and that you are separate people as well as a couple. When he needs some space, don't take it personally.
Remember to always be there when he needs a hug, or a kiss. Body contact is very important, and always warms up a relationship. But if he wants to do things you don't you absolutely have to tell him. If he cares about you, he will respect this!

Tips

Remember, it's better to give than to receive. The major religions got this right, and for a good reason: mysteriously, you gain more in the long run by giving than by getting. While love isn't all you need, it's the most important thing.
Keep in mind: the road will be difficult and he won't ask directions. As in any healthy relationship, you will have your share of conflicts, some tiny, some big. Remember to be true to yourself, and try to abandon any significant selfishness. A relationship is a matter of team work and a symbiotic relationship, not a parasitic one where a party gives and the other one just takes without giving enough back.
Don't stop spending time with your girlfriends, they are necessary as to provide shoulders to cry on when you feel like your relationship is slipping away. If you and the boyfriend break up, they will still be there to say "We're here for you", so don't neglect them. Plus, spending some time apart will make him that much more glad to see you when you DO get together.
Dress sexy once in a while. Don't do this too often but surprise him now and then with a hot outfit, which you buy with your own money. Nothing pumps a man's ego more than knowing that he's got a pretty girl by his side.
If your boyfriend is acting Passive towards you when starting a new relationship (like not buying you stuff or not saying sweet things to you or not kissing you) it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love you. It most likely means he is shy and has never been in a relationship before and just doesn't know how to act. To solve this problem you can talk to him about acting that way, perhaps he's expecting you to take more initiative because you have had more experience with relationships than he has.
Avoid having a "one track" relationship in which the bond revolves around one thing. Keep your relationship strong by bringing variety and diversity into the relationship. Try different and new things together. Relationships are about having fun together, learning together and growing together.
Forgive him. Guys mess up a lot, it's just the way they are. Learn to forgive and forget, and that's when your relationship will truly blossom.
If he says he loves you more, argue over that! It's a simple way of flirting with him. It'll prove that you really do love him.

Warnings

Don't cheat,this will surely cause him to break it off with you,or in the least create major trust issues for the future.
Like Stacey's point in Eastenders, if you ever feel like cheating, remember: when you're older and wiser, you won't be thinking about some one night stand with a random guy from a pub/club, you'll remember your sweet boyfriend who's always been there for you.
Also, don't cheat or him expecting that it will cause him to pay more attention to you. He'll just dump you.
If you have already cheated on your boyfriend, tell him before he finds out later from someone else.
Don't conduct "secret tests" on your boyfriend to see what he'll do. It's humiliating, disrespectful and unfair, and you wouldn't want him to do that to you.
It's fine to share things with your girlfriends when talking about him, but remember to be respectful of him by not sharing things that are embarrassing, confidential or rude. (Don't kiss and tell!) You can keep your girlfriends "updated" on how the relationship is going, but keep them from getting involved in your relationship, unless abuse or other dangerous activities are taking place (which are never your fault), in which case tell them everything.
Don't be clingy!
Jealousy is a very dangerous thing. Don't make anyone jealous in your relationship. That will result with a lot of problems and difficulties within your relationship.